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One of the most important aspects of sexual intimacy is often forgotten, missed, cut short, or has never been there from the beginning. Many people have never even heard of sexual aftercare. I find that most things in life are often best with bookends.
It seems to work best for most of us when we start the day off with a morning routine and then end it with a nightly ritual to help with sleep bookends. Well, sex is no exception.
As you have probably experienced, often sex can have quite the abrupt ending. Then you might roll over and go to sleep or get up and leave or get up to start cleaning things up. Sex may also end without climaxing, of course. This is when aftercare is especially important and often ignored due to hurt feelings, embarrassment or shameunfortunately. Sex is intimate and often makes us feel vulnerable. Aftercare is a way of showing kindness and caring to your partner. Physical intimacy is one way of you feeling special and appreciated. Aftercare helps create this feeling of closeness and intimacy.
It helps people feel like what they just did was special. Sex can still be casual, even when aftercare is included. After all, it is still a relationship!
Aftercare can help you feel less left alone directly after sex. It can make it obvious that you are cared about and cared for instead of feeling tossed aside or left alone.
So, go ahead and take a from the Kink community. Try it on and notice the difference. Kimberly Atwood is a d psychotherapist and certified sex therapist working in private practice in Princeton, NJ. She specializes in sexual health, intimacy and relationship issues. For more information, please check out her website.
What is Sexual Aftercare? You might be asking. The sexual bookends are foreplay and aftercare. The middle…well you know what goes on there. Ideally, aftercare is an essential part of most sexual encounters.
Why is Aftercare Important? Sexual aftercare feels good. It helps you to feel safe and more secure.
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