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This article will answer those questions and give you advice on how to date effectively.

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Not all submissive women are feminine, of course. But femininity comes more difficult to strong women and easier to submissive ones. Strong women tend to be more independent, at least in appearances. Most women can be submissive or strong depending on the situation and, as well, depending on the man they are with. And everyone sits on a continuum, not on polar opposites. They are still helpful to understand the differences. Both camps tend to be rather scornful of each other. The proponents of the strong woman say that the submissive woman gets played and abandoned.

Only a few of the best dating resources espouse a happy middle. In my opinion part of the reason is that women who write dating books have been burned themselves and have a grudge against men. Women, just like men, seek to increase their sexual market value. The other one is, guess what? Women suggesting other women to be stronger and more independent are subconsciously trying to make other women less competitive and appealing.

Submissive girl dating by decreasing the appeal of other women, they automatically increase their own sex appeal.

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Just ask yourself this: have you ever heard a woman telling another woman to be more feminine? Exactly, me neither. Albeit, as we shall see, being more feminine is obviously the most competitive position to adopt in the dating marketplace.

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So yes, there is much manipulation going on with women telling other women submissive girl dating be strong and independent. When men complain about women being too feminist, masculine, or independent, they are often complaining that women are too independent for them.

They take issue with not being able to control their women, but instead of looking in the mirror, they go for the good old finger-pointing. And of course, men also have an obvious interest in making their dating options larger and more palatable. By telling women to be more submissive, men seek to increase their own dating options as well as dating pleasure, since submissive women make for better relationships.

Therefore, I would recommend you always keep that in mind when dating advice comes from women -with the unconscious agenda of making you less appealing- or from men -with the unconscious agenda of making dating easier for themselves. This is because submissive girl dating prefer relationships with men who are more dominant, and men prefer relationships with women who are more submissive especially for long term.

Mathematically, then, submissive women naturally have more options. You can see this in the picture below. The submissive woman pink-clad angel on the left is only at odds with very few super-submissive men. And she can date almost any man green arrow to her right. The strong woman is at the opposite end of the spectrum though. In my opinion, one of the reasons Hillary Clinton lost is because, in an effort to look more dominant, she ended up forgetting to be a woman in far too many instances.

And at the other end of the spectrum, women who overplay the submissive hand, end up being annoying to men as well:. But later, it will become annoying. Yet, often, there is a tendency for people to cluster around similarities. And thus, men also tend to prefer women who are not too far off from their level of assertiveness.

Sure, if strong women lose in femininity, then they lose big.

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But if they can manage to retain their femininity, then they can be very high quality also see: how to be strong and feminine. And the same is true for submissive women. You can have both high-quality submissive women and low quality ones. How can you use this information to become an even higher quality gal?

I would say there are three major lessons learned here:. The vast, vast majority of independent women are no family destroying, man-hating lesbians. And the vast, vast majority of traditional women are no pushovers who let men take advantage of them on the contrary, men are often happy to provide for them. And if you are too on the strong woman side, you might gain from becoming more feminine and more accommodating.

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That attitude shrinks the dating pool to a puddle. If you insist on dating on your terms, you will only end up with submissive men. But if you meet a man you like, you might want to consider not to get into a struggle for control against him. Indeed, the three top seducing strategies we reviewed, all use a hint of submissiveness. Evolutionary psychologist David Buss says:.

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s of submissiveness and helplessness lower barriers to approaches. Acting submissive elicits approaches from more men, expands the pool of potential mates, creates greater opportunities for choice, and ultimately increases the quality of the mate obtained. Strategic submissiveness can actually increase the quality of mates. So you must be watchful when deploying that strategy. Independent women resent more feminine women.

And they also resent men who prefer feminine women. All that flak is mostly out of self-protection. It only poisons you and it looks spiteful. And see if you can learn a couple of things, instead. Do you know the Bruce Lee quote :. Well, women, on average, are very good at being like water and adapting to their environment.

Well, human beings on average are very good at adapting to the prevailing social customs. However, women even more so. It means that most women in the west will say, and maybe even actually believe, that they are independent. And most women in cultures that prize or force women into traditional roles, will say they are good, traditional housewives. As a matter of fact, many women who flaunt their independence might as well as try to cover up their lack of confidence and independence, which submissive girl dating a phenomenon called reaction formation in psychology.

Great article, and I fully agree. From my own observation, the most go-getter women tend to be the ones who are most frequently single. A reader from West Chester University. And is it even true that men like submissive women? Related Posts.

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