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Erotic hypnosis is exactly what it sounds like — a more X-rated application of this service.
Many people seek out Neil and other erotic hypnotists to enhance sensation, explore fantasies that are hard to pull off in real life and for power exchange in kinky settings amongst other things. What erotic hypnosis is particularly great for, though, is helping people experience sexual or sensual sensations in the absence of physical stimuli.
I can make them feel small. The more suggestible a person the erotic hypnotist, the more likely they are to respond to hypnotic suggestions, and the more effective hypnosis will be. I do both therapeutic, non-sexual hypnotherapy for things like diet adherence, phobias or moving forward after an assault, but I also do erotic hypnosis to help people explore fantasies and enhance certain sensations. That aspect of it has kind of fallen by the wayside over the years, though — now it feels more like a job than a kinky thing. How did you get into the erotic hypnosis business?
AroundI had this boring IT job that gave me a lot of time to sit around and surf the web. One day, I stumbled across an online sexual hypnosis group. I was fascinated by what I saw and immediately wanted to study it. I found some hypnosis tutorials online and bought some books. Later on, I took a hypnotherapy certification course at a school in New York City.
Eventually I got really good at it and decided to quit my day job to do hypnosis full-time. Okay, so, men.
What kinds of issues or fantasies do your male clients have? It runs the gamut, but the most common things I get are erectile dysfunction, being unable to bottom receive anal sex and an inability to orgasm during partnered sex. Hypnosis works really well for that kind of thing.
With bottoming, I often start out by doing hypnotherapy where I give them a hypnotic suggestion to be able to relax their minds and anal sphincter so they can bottom more easily. What are some less common — or more memorable — things people ask you to do for them? A smaller minority of people are turned on by the actual process of hypnosis itself. In general, though, I get a lot of people who are just interested in the idea of being controlled.
For example, a lot of people are into chastity. Hypnosis is a great way to enforce chastity without having to wear an actual device. It can also be used to simulate kinks that are impossible to create in real life. Often, people want to be turned into something like a superhero or a mythical being. You can role play that, sure, but with hypnosis, you can experience it in much greater accuracy, sensation and detail.
For example, many people have rape fantasies. It allows them to get close to that desire in their imagination without being traumatized in real life. However, if someone has fantasies that are probably best left unexplored, perhaps because doing so may make them more likely to do that behavior in real life, I say no. It really depends on the person. A hypnotic suggestion can make sensations feel way more intense or less intense, depending on the application.
How, though, does this work? Walk me through a session. In the first session, we do a lot of talking about the history of hypnosis, how it works, how the sessions will go, what they want to get out of the process and what their limits and boundaries are. We go over what issues they want help with on the therapeutic side, and what they want to experience erotically. I do this to build rapport and trust so they can get comfortable with both the erotic hypnotist and the idea of hypnosis.
When people are more comfortable with their hypnotist and their surroundings, they become more suggestible, which makes it easier to put them in a trance. I tailor my techniques to each client, but they all basically involve me droning on and on. During the session, I tend to wake people up a lot and check in, which not every hypnotist does. It also gives me the opportunity to the erotic hypnotist their consent.
Often, people touch themselves, and sometimes, if they request it, I will also touch them. That depends on their limits and comfort level. I prefer to do erotic hypnosis using post-hypnotic suggestions.
A trigger can be a word I say or an action on my part or a combination of the two. This is a form of hypno-bondage. Sometimes people ask me to give their partners the trigger, which is fun. So you do couples? One type comes in to do a session together. The other type are couples who want me to hypnotize one of them and give the other control over that person.
Isabelle Kohn is a sex and relationships journalist, educator and consultant who, for some reason, keeps writing about livestock instead. She writes features and long-form pieces for MEL, usually without the help of Clippy. However, I do have straight and bisexual male, female and trans clients as well. Isabelle Kohn Isabelle Kohn is a sex and relationships journalist, educator and consultant who, for some reason, keeps writing about livestock instead.
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